Challies' The Next Story

Tim Challies, (2011), The Next Story: Life and Faith after the Digital Explosion, Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.

Pastor, author and blogger Tim Challies asks three important questions about technology. He deals mainly with the impressive development of the technology of the CPU, Internet and digital communication. The three questions are (1) 'if technology was somehow taking over my life', (2) 'if it was remaking me in its image', and (3) 'if it was making me a tool of my tools'. His approach to answering these three questions is systematic as he deals with the theory, theology and experience of technology in the areas of (1) communication, (2) mediation/identity, (3) distraction, (4) information, (5) truth/authority and (6) visibility/privacy. Though there is scope for a wider work, the questions by its design imply his personal experiences and reflections.
Whether we are in a post-digital explosion era or still in the digital explosion era may still be argued. The social media is still expanding and the next 'killer' apps may be just below the horizon. The digital revolution, for all its hype is still limited to a few prosperous countries while the majority of humankind is not able to read or write, least of all to use a computer.

Are we in the 'next story' is also open to debate. Technology does not change human nature, only the means for human nature to achieve their purposes. One would not call the era after the invention of the printing press which is the technology similar to the present digital revolution the 'next' story. It is still the continuation of the human story.

Challies' experience with the digital is an interesting read but is hardly representative. He was right that his book was descriptive but it contain just too much history and facts about the digital revolution. Unfortunately there are too many of such 'descriptive' books in the market. However I have enjoyed his 'prescriptive' and learned much from his suggestions for Christians in the use of the digital media. One idea that stands out his is suggestion that we become accountable for our blog postings. I have never though of that though I have accountability groups for other aspects of my life. The book will may be better if it is more prescriptive.

Challies asked three important questions that need to be considered. Will the digital technology enslave us, keep us in bondage and force us to worship idols. With respect to Neil Postman and Marshall McLuhan, I believe that human nature has not changed since the time of creation. At present, we just have more toys to play with. We have in our human nature the propensity to addiction. Digital technology offers yet another thing to be addicted to. Living in another time, those who are enslaved and addicted to digital technology will have found something else to be addicted to.

What has changed is the way we live. We have always multi-tasked. Most of us can walk and talk at the same time so it is not something new. What is new is that we can walk and talk at the same time with someone on the other side of the world with our mobile phone.

This book is in scope comparable to Tapscott's Grown Up Digital (my review here).

The Beautiful Land

A beautiful song written by a mother for her son.



That Beautiful Land' - In Memory of Julian Ruan who was called home with Lord Jesus on January 10, 2006.

Lyrics: KN Chua
Music: Wei Wong

Will You Ask to be Humiliated Daily?

I am amused and challenged by Richard Rohr’s comment that he has “prayed for years for one good humiliation a day, and then [he] must observe what [his]reaction to it” (128). He said this in the context that as he became more well known in his writings and in his ministry, there is an element of pride always hiding in the shadows. He adds that “spiritual leader” or “professional religious person” is “such a dangerous and ego-inflating self-image” (128). Spiritual growth, he emphases, takes place when we struggle with our shadow self.

I agree fully with the danger of the ‘ego-inflating self-image”. I am very lucky because the people I minister to and my patients and their parents are very affirming (I am a paediatrician). Asians in general gives a lot of respect to their elders especially if they are in leadership positions. These can be very ego-inflating and one of my constant struggles is with the sin of pride. It is so easy to give into your shadow self and believe your own hype. However, I will not go as far as Rohr to ask the Lord for a good humiliation a day. I guess I am not there yet and my ego-self-image is still very fragile. One day, I hope I will be able to do so.

How about you? Are you willing to ask God for a good humiliation a day? Can you take it if he answers?

Food Wars: Feeding of Children

As a paediatrician, one of my role is as a parenting coach. Some of the commonest questions posed to me are those concerning food and feeding. Everyone who has tried to feed an active toddler will be able to attest that the daily feeding times often escalate to food wars. Their lovingly prepared food finds its way anywhere except into the mouth of the child.

I tell parents that both them and their children has a social contract in children feeding. They each must know where their responsibilities on feeding begin and end.

The parent's responsibility on feeding
what
when
where

The child's responsibility
how much
whether

Much angst and food fights can be avoided if parents understand their responsibilities. Parents are to prepare food at the appropriate time and offer the food to their children at the appropriate place. It is up to the child to decide how much they want to eat and whether they want to eat at all. Parents, of course, being bigger can decide how much their child is to eat by forcing them. Unfortunately parents, for all their size, cannot force the child in deciding whether the child wants to eat. So feeding times become a contest of wills.

Each child is different and the amount of food and timing of their hunger need differs. Parents seem to think that all children must be feed constantly and must ingest food in large amounts. Often this idea comes from comparing their children with other people's children. For some strange reasons, in such comparisons, parents seem to take into consideration children who consume more than their own children and neglect those who take less. Each child is different and after the weaning diet period as long as a child receive three meals and two to three milk supplements, their nutritional needs will be met. There is no necessity for mulitvitamins, spirulina, goat colostrum or other alternate food supplements in a healthy child who is eating. Not now, not ever.

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A Father's Day Gifts Coloring Pages

A Father's Day Gifts Coloring Pages

4th of July tablescape and more

Did you know Ballard designs has a special studio called Style Studio, they feature some great DIY projects, these paper and fabric placemats are a few ideas and projects they feature with "how to's"! The table settings following are a few plate settings that I will be using while making my own matching paper place mats and napkins plus napkin holders. 

4TH of July

Red, White and Blue

This is the place setting I will be using for my 4th of July tablescape, along with foam lined paper placemats in blue, blue glasses, red napkins, flags, red white and blue carnations, red and blue candles.

Note: the cute buttoned tuxedo napkin holder.

Black and creamy white placemats and napkins.

Clean, classy black and creamy white placemats 

I will use this place settings for a sunny summery brunch

I will add yellow daisy centerpiece, yellow gingham covered vase, yellow and white candles, fresh yellow daisies n napkins. Serving Lemonade and finger sandwiches, cookies.

How to:

HOW TO make paper place mats:

CLICK on photo for larger version

Note: the place mats hang over the table, luv it!

Now it' easier than ever to make your own paper place mats and napkins, what FUN and easy way to have a brunch, lunch or romantic dinner. ENJOY Bon Appetit!!

Linking to :craftenvy, creativecorner,  wordsync, itsahodgepodge, sugaranddots

4th of July tablescape and more

Did you know Ballard designs has a special studio called Style Studio, they feature some great DIY projects, these paper and fabric placemats are a few ideas and projects they feature with "how to's"! The table settings following are a few plate settings that I will be using while making my own matching paper place mats and napkins plus napkin holders. 

4TH of July

Red, White and Blue

This is the place setting I will be using for my 4th of July tablescape, along with foam lined paper placemats in blue, blue glasses, red napkins, flags, red white and blue carnations, red and blue candles.

Note: the cute buttoned tuxedo napkin holder.

Black and creamy white placemats and napkins.

Clean, classy black and creamy white placemats 

I will use this place settings for a sunny summery brunch

I will add yellow daisy centerpiece, yellow gingham covered vase, yellow and white candles, fresh yellow daisies n napkins. Serving Lemonade and finger sandwiches, cookies.

How to:

HOW TO make paper place mats:

CLICK on photo for larger version

Note: the place mats hang over the table, luv it!

Now it' easier than ever to make your own paper place mats and napkins, what FUN and easy way to have a brunch, lunch or romantic dinner. ENJOY Bon Appetit!!

Linking to :craftenvy, creativecorner,  wordsync, itsahodgepodge, sugaranddots

Compassion in the Father Day Coloring Pages

Compassion in the Father Day Coloring Pages

Romantic Blue and white bedrooms

Romantic Blue and white bedroom ideas
All photos courtesy House Beautiful magazine

Cool crisp blue

Blue and white stripe

My favorite blue and white with pop of yellow

BLUE semi-canopy idea

Love the beautiful azure blue paint

I want to redecorate my master bedroom, I currently have a white wrought iron headboard, neutral walls, neutral carpet. I posted photos from House Beautiful decorating bedroom ideas.  What I am wanting is white lacy bedding, florals, more romantic look, with a crystal chandelier. Thinking of wallpapering in florals, the chandelier is a must. Also looking for tons of lacy pillows and maybe a vintage seat. Nightstands with fresh flowers in silver or crystal vases. The fun is in the planning!

Romantic Blue and white bedrooms

Romantic Blue and white bedroom ideas
All photos courtesy House Beautiful magazine

Cool crisp blue

Blue and white stripe

My favorite blue and white with pop of yellow

BLUE semi-canopy idea

Love the beautiful azure blue paint

I want to redecorate my master bedroom, I currently have a white wrought iron headboard, neutral walls, neutral carpet. I posted photos from House Beautiful decorating bedroom ideas.  What I am wanting is white lacy bedding, florals, more romantic look, with a crystal chandelier. Thinking of wallpapering in florals, the chandelier is a must. Also looking for tons of lacy pillows and maybe a vintage seat. Nightstands with fresh flowers in silver or crystal vases. The fun is in the planning!

Cooking in the Father Day Coloring Pages

Cooking in the Father Day Coloring Pages

Five Ways to Pray the Psalms

Image: graur razvan ionut / FreeDigitalPhotos.net

May I suggest five ways we can pray the Psalms.

1. Say them out loud

One effective way to pray the Psalms is to read them out loud. Many of the Psalms are meant to be read in public assembly. Reading out loud not only helps you to proclaim the psalms, it also enables you to hear it. Speaking and listen are important aspect of prayers.

2. Use them as a jumping off platform

As you read the psalms, read it slowly and use the words, phrases, sentences as a platform to launch into your own prayers. After you have finished, then go back to where you left of and continue reading. Again launch off as you felt let to pray around the words or theme in the psalms. For example in Psalm 23:3, when you read “he restores my soul…” you might want to pray about your spiritual life, your present struggles and appeal for his intervention.

3. Paraphase them

Rewrite the psalms in your own words. When you paraphrase the psalm, you are interacting with you seek to understand the main points and to express it your way. It also helps to paraphrase in your own language if English is not your first language.

4. Memorise them

Memorising parts or whole psalms are another way to pray them. Repeat the psalms you have memorized continually and he begin to understand what St.Paul means when he asks us to praying unceasingly. Using memorized portion or whole of the psalms in your prayer is useful when you do not know what to say when you pray. Sometimes you will find that the psalmist can express your needs better than you can say it.


5. Let them talk to you

Use the spiritual discipline of lectio divina to read the psalms during your prayer and let the psalms speak to you. Lectio divina or spiritual reading involves reading, meditating, praying and contemplating. These four movements help us to listen to the psalms and allow the Holy Spirit to speak to us.

These are some of the ways you can pray the psalms.


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Books on Spiritual Formation

Check out this list of spiritual formation books posted on the Hearts & Minds bookstore A rich summer array of brand new books on spiritual formation.

It is also an interesting website to visit.

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Charter Number 1 for Fathers Day Coloring Pages

Charter Number 1 for Fathers Day Coloring Pages

Incarnational Mysticism

I have enjoyed the autobiographic sharing by Richard Rohr in the chapter Necessary Suffering especially in his experience with the Roman Catholic Church. There is much there that is between the lines in what he shares but the final result is that he has developed a great understanding of the catholic church which he named “incarnational mysticism” – “Once you get it, there is no going backward, because nothing is any better” (76).

Basically I agree with him that Christians need a stronger and deeper ecclesiology. I say this as an Evangelical and a Presbyterian. I admit that our ecclesiology is rather thin and shallow. As Rohr notes, our ecclesiology must be linked to the Mystery of God. That is why I am so taken by his term incarnational mysticism. It reminds me of what Karl Rahler said that all Christians are mystics. It also resonates with my reading of Karl Barth which is drawing me more and more to appreciate the Mystery of God.

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# 1 Dad of Father Coloring Pages

# 1 Dad of Father Coloring Pages

Worlds Greatest Trophy Father Day Coloring Pages

Worlds Greatest Trophy Father Day Coloring Pages

Ship of Happy Father Coloring Pages

Ship of Happy Father Coloring Pages

Family Party on the Fahter Day Coloring Pages

Family Party on the Fahter Day Coloring Pages

Office Tie for Father Coloring Pages

Office Tie for Father Coloring Pages

Reading Cambridge Companion to Karl Barth

This book is a good compilation for an overview of Karl Barth's theology

Christian Discernment at the Movies

Some thoughts on discernment in movie watching

The Great Christian Movie Confusion

Is it wrong for Christians to watch movies?

Movies are a narrative art form as much as literature, sculptures and paintings. It is the cultural milieu in which we live in. As Christians, we believe that we should enjoy God’s creation, even though it is not a perfect one. Culture is part of this creation and culture has much to teach us about ourselves and about God (often in a negative way).

Is it wrong for Christians to watch movies with witches, spells, magic and spirits?

Those who answer yes often think of the Harry Potter movies and the Golden Compass. However they will be willing to watch the Lord of the Ring trilogy and the Narnia series even though these movies have witches, spells, magic and spirits. Often they will be hard-pressed to explain why some movies are acceptable while others are not in the same genre.

Discernment in Watching Movies

To exercise discernment in watching movies, we need to ask ourselves three questions:

(1)   What is/are the message(s) of this movie?

(2)   What elements are used to convey the message?

(3)   Are there message(s) embedded in the elements?

Take for example, the Lord of the Rings trilogy and the Harry Potter movies.

The message of these movies are similar – friendship, loyalty, love, good over evil

The elements of these movies are similar – wizards, magic, spells, spirits

However, in the Harry Potter movies, the elements (wizards, magic, spells, spirit) also carries a message – that not all who practice witchcraft are bad, only those who practice the Dark Arts. Biblical teaching tells us that God forbids witchcraft (Deut. 18:10). Another way to understand elements in a movie is a car. If the hero jump into a car and drive from point A to point B, then it is just an element. If the hero jumped into an Austin Martin, then the element also sends a message. James Bond (007) drives an Austin Martin.

Message, Elements and Message-embedded-in-Elements

There were no movies in the Bible. People told stories that were perceived mental movies. The parables told by Jesus are examples of these mental movies. An example is the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:30-37).

  LK 10:30 In reply Jesus said: "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. `Look after him,' he said, `and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.'

    LK 10:36 "Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?"

    LK 10:37 The expert in the law replied, "The one who had mercy on him."

    Jesus told him, "Go and do likewise."

Parable as movie	Message	Elements	Message embedded in elements
Parable of the Good Samaritan	Love and help others	Drama, robbery, priest, Levite, merchant, Samaritan, violence, innkeeper	No (people are not influenced to be Samaritans)

Wizardry

Movie	Message	Elements	Message embedded in elements
Lord of the Rings trilogy	friendship, loyalty, love, good over evil	Adventure, wizards, magic, spells, spirits, violence	No
Harry Porter movies	friendship, loyalty, love, good over evil	Adventure, wizards, magic, spells, spirits, violence	Yes- some practitioners of witchcraft is good; there is a school for witchcraft
Narnia movies	friendship, loyalty, love, good over evil	Adventure, wizards, magic, spells, spirits, violence	No

Deut. 18: 9-14

DT 18:9 When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you, do not learn to imitate the detestable ways of the nations there. 10 Let no one be found among you who sacrifices his son or daughter in the fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, 11 or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead. 12 Anyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD, and because of these detestable practices the LORD your God will drive out those nations before you. 13 You must be blameless before the LORD your God.

    DT 18:14 The nations you will dispossess listen to those who practice sorcery or divination. But as for you, the LORD your God has not permitted you to do so.

      No human sacrifice

      No practicing divination (any attempt to get guidance or foretell the future from any supernatural source other than God). This includes astrology and horoscopes.

      No sorcery (using magic powers)

      No interpreting omens

      No engaging in witchcraft

      No casting spells

      No consulting or being a medium or spiritist (those who contact spirits and allow the spirits to communicate through them)

      No trying to consult the dead

Paganism/ Neopaganism

Avatar A paraplegic marine dispatched to the moon Pandora on a unique mission becomes torn between following his orders and protecting the world he feels is his home	Protector of people and planet	Science fiction, Virtual world, special effects, violence	Yes-paganism, worship of Gaia
Pocohontas Capt. John Smith leads a rag-tag band of English sailors & soldiers to the New World to plunder its riches for England (or, more precisely, for Governor Ratcliffe, who comes along for the ride). Between Ratcliffe, who believes the "savages" are hiding the gold he expected to be plentiful, and Powhatan, who believes these pale newcomers will destroy their land, Smith and Pocahontas have a difficult time preventing all-out war, and saving their love for each other	Protection of land and people against exploitation	Cartoon, adventure, special effects	Yes-paganism, worship of Gaia
Star Wars	Action has consequences, power corrupts	Science fiction, special effects, galactic drama, violence	Yes, paganism. The Force
Matrix trilogy	Machine-man interface, next step in evolution	Science fiction, special effects, violence	Yes, paganism. Next stage in evolution, man-machine state of consciousness

Paganism (neo-paganism) celebrates the Earth, living creatures, nature, and so on. Most modern-day pagans believe in more than one god, while others are atheistic.

Paganism – What are some pagan systems and religions?

      American pagans practice a variety of forms of traditions, but the most popular are Celtic, Greco-Roman, Native American, ancient Egyptian, and Norse.

      Kabbalah: During the Middle Ages, this Jewish mystical and magical system developed.

      Shamanism: This tradition is practiced by the Native American cultures. Drumming is the technique used, and in traditional societies, the shaman travels to the spirit realm to gain information regarding the community’s needs like healing or spiritual growth.

      Egyptian: This is very popular today, and involves complex spiritual and magical systems centering on death and rebirth. It developed in ancient Egypt when priestesses and priests became known for their level of knowledge and skill in magical arts.

      Druidism: The original Druids were priestesses and part of the judicial class of the ancient Celts.

      Discordianism: This began as a Buddhist practice with the main idea being “existence is orderly chaos.” Meditative procedures, confusion and enlightenment, chaos and order, pain and pleasure are revealed as inseparable parts of a total vision of reality[1].

What do Pagans believe in?

 Pagans respect nature as divine. Although Paganism covers a wide spectrum of ideas, these elements sum up the beliefs of the majority.

Nature

The recognition of the divine in nature is at the heart of Pagan belief. Pagans are deeply aware of the natural world and see the power of the divine in the ongoing cycle of life and death. Most Pagans are eco-friendly, seeking to live in a way that minimises harm to the natural environment.

Concepts of the divine

Pagans worship the divine in many different forms, through feminine as well as masculine imagery and also as without gender. The most important and widely recognised of these are the God and Goddess (or pantheons of God and Goddesses) whose annual cycle of procreation, giving birth and dying defines the Pagan year. Paganism strongly emphasises equality of the sexes. Women play a prominent role in the modern Pagan movement, and Goddess worship features in most Pagan ceremonies.

Pagan theology

Paganism is not based on doctrine or liturgy. Many pagans believe 'if it harms none, do what you will'. Following this code, Pagan theology is based primarily on experience, with the aim of Pagan ritual being to make contact with the divine in the world that surrounds them.[2]

Deut. 5: 6-8

    DT 5:6 "I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.

  DT 5:7 "You shall have no other gods before me.

  DT 5:8 "You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. 9 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, 10 but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.

Occult

Season of the Witch	Power of the book of Solomon over demons (not the words of Solomon in the Bible)	Adventure, crusade, demons, monastery, plague, power of words	Yes- words of Solomon, not God’s.
Constantine John Constantine as a cynic with the ability to perceive and communicate with half-angels and half-demons in their true form. He seeks salvation from eternal damnation in Hell for a suicide attempt in his youth. Constantine exorcises demons back to Hell in a bid to earn favor with Heaven but has become weary over time. With death looming, he helps a troubled police detective learn the truth about her sister's death while simultaneously unraveling a much larger and darker plot.	Salvation, redemption	Horror, demons, angels, violence, hell	Yes- wrong theology of suicide, cannot earn flavour with God
The Exorcist When a teenager is possessed by a mysterious entity, her mother seeks the help of two priests to save her daughter.	Exorcism	Horror, exorcism, demon possession	Yes – too much emphasis on the demonic

Violence

Saving Private Ryan Following the Normandy Landings, a group of US soldiers go behind enemy lines to retrieve a paratrooper whose brothers have been killed in action.	Sacrifice, duty, loyalty, friendship	War, violence, body parts	No
300	Sacrifice, duty, loyalty, friendship	War, violence, body parts	Yes, graphic violence. Violence is honor
Resident Evil series	One person against large corporation	Horror, violence	Yes, glorification of violence

Christian themed movies

Chariot of Fire	Human effort versus divine empowerment	Biography, Racing, Olympics games	No
Amazing Grace	One man’s crusade	Biography, slavery, London, politics	No
Shadowland	Learning to love	Biography, Oxford,	No

Others

Thor	Consequences of favouritism in parenting (father)	Drama, Norse mythology, gods, violence	No
True Grit	Actions has consequences	Drama, cowboy, bad language, violence,	No
Shadowland	Learning to love	Biography, Oxford,	No

Useful movie review links

Movie Guide http://www.movieguide.org/

Ted Baehr is Founder and Publisher of MOVIEGUIDE®:  The Family Guide to Movies and Entertainment and Chairman of the Christian Film & Television Commission® ministry, as well as a noted critic, educator, lecturer, and media pundit. His life’s purpose is to be used of God to redeem the values of the media while educating audiences on how to use discernment in selecting their entertainment.

Movies reviews at Crosswalk http://www.crosswalk.com/culture/movies/

Movies review at People of Faith http://www.peopleoffaith.com/christian-movie-reviews.htm

Alex Tang’s reviews http://www.kairos2.com/movies_page.htm

Anime movies

Christian Anime Sites

Christian Anime Alliance
Possibly the most readily identified Christian anime site on the Internet, CAA has many Christian-focused reviews of anime and manga.  It also has a very active forum.
Christianmanga.com
Another well-known site, Christianmanga.com features a number of fanmade manga.  It also has a very active forum of believers.
Anime Angels
This site has been around for a number of years and contains art, reviews and articles published through the site’s magazine.  Users communicate primarily through an activity feed.
Let’s Love Japan
This amazing site’s goal is to reach out to the Japanese by creating a mobile website with animated stories and other tools.  Among their current projects is an anime about Jesus. 

Conclusion

To exercise discernment in watching movies, we need to ask ourselves three questions:

(1)   What is/are the message(s) of this movie?

(2)   What elements are used to convey the message?

(3)   Are there message(s) embedded in these elements?

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[1] Paganism. http://www.allaboutspirituality.org/paganism.htm accessed 26 May 2011

[2] Pagan Beliefs http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/paganism/beliefs/beliefs.shtml accessed 26 May 2011